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prudewheresmyghost:

One of the prominent commonalities usually found in folks diagnosed with bpd (borderline personality disorder) is their fear of abandonment. Could it be possible that folks with bpd fear abandonment because they do things that motivate people in their lives to want to get rid of them? Their off-putting behavior is a losing formula for how to make a relationship last.

It’s not pc to blame the victim. If a woman has fears, we should be sympathetic, right? Or maybe not. Maybe the fears of a person who fears abandonment are totally appropriate because that person’s provocative behaviors invite rejection. I am not saying that the provocative behavior is on person. I am saying though that high-emotion and especially high-intensity angry behavior does drive others away.

The moral of the story?

First and foremost, borderline behaviors do cause people to want to get away from them.

I can’t believe that a psychologist wrote this piece of garbage…
no, wait, actually it’s totally believable, especially when so many therapists refuse to treat people with BPD. And they say we’re the evil ones lacking empathy & compassion?? OK